Mate, hope your ok!
Unfortunately we live in a world now where the word cheating is thrown around a lot, in some relationships chatting on the net sending pics is quite normal and harmless fun.
A lot of men just sit there and look at women on the net not knowing that is someone wife or girlfriend.
I think some space will do you good to think about what you want but this don't mean it's the end of you too, it could make you stronger.
I be worried if she was a compulsive liar as there is more chance of it recurring, the fact you picked these little signals up shows how much you love her.
We are all always quick to blame the other party, but ask yourself is there any reason for her to do this - maybe lack of love from you!
Although this may not be the case but a relationship is a 2 way thing and a lot of time someone will look elsewhere when they are missing something.
Have a long hard think mate, throwing it all away is easy. Take some time out and at least here her out as much it hurts it will do good in the long run.
We all deserve a 2nd chance.
Thanks you make some good points.
It could well be me, I don't want to try myself as "perfect" or completely innocent.
But I just personally feel nothing I done deserved what she done, for all I know when I'm at work for a couple of hours at night she could have had someone in my bed.
Obviously I don't know that, and maybe it's just me overreacting, but it's disgusting.
I honestly don't think this would make the relationship stronger but I could see how some circumstances might, but the way I look at it, is if I didn't see those pictures she'd still be sending them down the line.
And with regards to
We are all always quick to blame the other party, but ask yourself is there any reason for her to do this - maybe lack of love from you!
I honestly don't think I did anything to deserve that, and then the constant lies after, and even the lies once I had found out.
I won't ever forgive her, I'm quite stubborn and hold a grudge, I have a few things that I believe people shouldn't do, and I can't stand lying.
The same with stealing, if someone I knew ever stole from me, that would be it, I'd never talk to them again.
If I stayed with her after this I'd be the biggest mug out there, so I'd be there supporting her after she's been doing god knows what with random guys.
She'd never learn if I forgave her, maybe now when she's with someone else she might make her think twice before doing the same thing.
I believe nowadays people will do what you allow them to do to you.
And besides I'd rather give my love and attention to someone that won't **** on me.
Just thinking about it now, so if I forgave her fast forward a few weeks and we'd be on holiday like nothings happened, with me sitting there knowing just a few weeks previously she had sent pictures of herself to guys, and possibly slept with them.
Nah I couldn't do it, and if anyone could in my situation then they're certainly more forgiving than I am.