What's a SHY bloke to do???

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  1. Ned Senior

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    There I was happily plodding along in life when up pops a beautiful lady that I have not seen for 18 months whom at the time, I fancied like mad but was far too shy to ask her out..
    She is still very stunning and friendly also she is not workshy (a major plus in my book!)

    I know for certain whereabouts she will be until 10pm today BUT that may be, it she could just be visiting for the day and dissappear for ever more

    I am terrified to act as I am shy and frit of the KB

    Any advice you splendid peeps???

    Cheers

    Ned
     
  2. kav

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    Approach her without showboating - don't try to overcompensate for your shyness. Tell her it's great to see her again, ask her what she's been up to - just be interested in her. Be sincere and direct, ask her if she would be free for a drink this evening or later in the week. If she is - it's a good first step. If she's not - then you don't need to get down about it, just tell her it was lovely to see her again and move on! Even if you get knocked back, at least you won't be wondering how it could have gone. Good luck!
     
  3. montybaber

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    in my experience be confident and have a chat with her and see how the conversation goes, if its possible explain youd like to meet up (she will get the message) hopefully numbers will be exchanged if not you have lost nothing.

    try not to be too shy and kinda stalk her (basically be too pally) if she likes you she will befriend you if she doesnt she will be scared of you, this is usually why nice guy finish last
     
  4. Johnny Thunder

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    Don't waste time nicey nicey. Just tell her you've always fancied her and would she like a night out with you.

    Then give her one.















    A night out that is.;)
     
  5. Kieron

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    Is she single?
     
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    What he said. You have nothing to lose, if you get knocked back you'll likely never see her again anyway so give it a go!
     
  7. Iccz

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    Get her number and mesage me it :smashin:
     
  8. Ned Senior

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    About to find that out when I go ask her if she would like to have a drink or something that's where I find out if she drinks too

    It's the or something I am most interested in haha I jest (ish)
     
  9. Ned Senior

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    Well here goes I will report back later!!!
     
  10. wellladida

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    Thats what i was wondering but I guess thats something you can really ask I guess the best bet would be invite her out for a friendly drink then if she thinks your coming on to her shell mention a boyfriend husband etc but if not try and bring present relationships up. Or if she has a wedding ring on just leg it;)
    ooo too late hope it goes WELL!!!!!!
     
  11. shodan

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    Before you do anything else please post pictures of her here. Posed pictures are best but covert will do if they are of decent quality. Then await my perusal and following advice.
    ;)
     
  12. Johnny Thunder

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    Good luck Ned.:smashin:
     
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    "Get your coat love, you've pulled"

    Pure Dynamite :cool:
     
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    10 says he comes back empty handed:rotfl:
     
  15. Beetlejuice

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    Good luck mate :smashin:
     
  16. stormchaser2005

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    does anyone really use that line and more importantly is anyone daft enough to fall for it?:rotfl::rotfl:

    from a womans perspective kavanf1 was spot on:thumbsup:
     
  17. mistry

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    fancy going half's on a baby.....:rotfl:

    only kiddin'......good luck mate....:smashin:
     
  18. AidenH

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    As others have said, good luck :smashin::thumbsup:
     
  19. virtual22

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    :)rotfl::rotfl: Priceless mate).

    Let us know how you get on OP :smashin:
     
  20. smelly

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    Thats a line??????? :eek:

    Seriously, some good advice here......and some very bad!!!!! But you know the difference (I hope!)

    Good luck and let us know how it goes!!!!!:thumbsup:
     
  21. stormchaser2005

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    You are past saving:rotfl::rotfl:
     
  22. smelly

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    Yep :D
     
  23. Ned Senior

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    Sad News!!!!

    Boo Yah

    Oi smelly fancy a ****??? :)
     
  24. stormchaser2005

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    Aww no:( Well at least you tried instead of doing nothing only to wonder "what if". Don't let it stop you plucking up the courage again!:)
     
  25. smelly

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    LOL!!! Second choice and a crap chat up line... What do you think????? :D
     
  26. Ned Senior

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    No way mate that's why I asked smelly I am on a roll now!!!

    hahaha seriousely though yeah it takes some getting used to plucking up the courage again when time was I was a monster at it!!!
     
  27. Ned Senior

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    See I am on a roll :D

    sorry BTW thought you'd be game for a laugh... seeing as I class you as an online friend
    hope not to offend :)
     
  28. smelly

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    Oh don't worry about offending me, most people on here will tell you there's very few ways of doing that :D
     
  29. Ned Senior

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    cool......














    any chance then???? :D
     
  30. stormchaser2005

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    ned, I think you could probably do better:rotfl:;)
     

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