Looking at the throw ratio's both projectors will just about squeeze in, but you are on the absolute edge of the tolerances according to the throw ratio calculations once you have take the depth of each projector plus space for cabling at the rear. So this is far less than ideal and any discrepancy (which happen with projection due to differences in the lens manufacturing for better and worse) could come and bit you by not filling the screen.
Taking these measurements, it seems as though the
Optoma UHD65 may give you up to 3cm extra over the
Epson EH-TW9400 which really shows you how tight your throw is and for me it's a little close to recommend both as an absolute solution for that room.
If you are happy to take the risk, then as you're able to control the room conditions at night to a degree, you should be fine with both
Regarding the general clinical side viewing, the Optoma should be sharper (its really is a DLP thing with less components to interfere with the outputting image (filters etc...)) whereas the Epson in reality will not be a million miles away on a 92" screen from your distance (but if you're watching 4K and had both side by size, you would see the differences from the Optoma).
As you are not going to have both playing next to each other, I'd say, once the film has started, both projectors will pull you in and even though they have differences, neither is poor in reality (it really doesn't happen at this price point). What could happen though is that because the room isn't ideal, the Epson should show you have it works in rooms which are less than ideal which is something DLP's are not as forgiving with black level detail.
But the Optoma (within its black level ability) will have a better gray scale that is ideal for shadow detail. and even though the Epson should be better however if it cannot produce a better black level than the Optoma, then it will loose out to it as the gray scale is where most of the colours are made up due to shadow detail. The end result is you may find that you will see more colour when watching the Optoma because of this. If you do pay more attention to the room light levels, then the
Espon will show why many people do enjoy the Epson overall
So, which will be better is not a straight forward answer as it will really depend upon the room and I feel it will ultimately depend upon how much effort you put into controlling the rooms light level.
Would I be disappointed with either, nope as both are extremely good and neither is significantly better than the other (in my opinion) for watching films in a room which is less than perfect once you become familiar with them. The only real thing that bothers me as I've mentioned above is the short distance you have open to you. If you was able to reduce the screen size by 2" then that would be more comfortable (using a 90" diagonal screen) but these are not as widely available