I recently purchased a vehicle that has a Valor DV-169 In-Dash DVD PLayer installed but it did not come with a remote. Seems to me that without the remote you can't make any selections on the DVD menus without it. Is there something that I am missing or can you really not do much with the player without the remote. I would like either info on how to use the player properly without the remote or a site where I can buy a replacement remote. If anyone could help, I would be very thankful.