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Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Dr Diversity, Jul 12, 2005.

  1. Dr Diversity

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    It is OK for girls to be tomboys, seems to be acceptable to most. For a boy to be effeminate however is not generally acceptable. When a girl friend wears the boyfriends clothes it can look sexy but the other way around tends to looks ridiculous*. In a similar vein there are lots of films where 'boy' character turns out to be an attractive girl.

    Girls can be 'boyish' in an attractive way; short hair, slim and small-chested and still considered to be sexy and straight. Think of the opposite position: An effeminate man with a flappy chest! I am not sure when, if ever, this inequality will be (or should be) ironed out.






    *not speaking from experience here
     
  2. Ian J

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    Speak for yourself as I've never been attracted to a girl that looks like a bloke.
     
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    You'll never get rid of that flappy chest with an iron.
     
  4. GrahamC

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    Hit him with the iron and dump the body in a cannal....gone :rotfl:
     
  5. Dr Diversity

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    No, I was thinking more along the lines of Kiera Knightly in Bend it like Beckham
     

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    But she doesn't look boyish. She just looks like a girl with small breasts!!
     
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    If you want a Tomboy, check out Michelle Rodriguez in SWAT.


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    Doesn't look like a bloke to me. She's in that Natalie Portman class of thin girls with small boobs. I would....given the chance :devil:

    Nowt wrong with that.
     
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    I think that looking boyish is not to be confused with looking like a bloke, two different things. A girl can have 'boyish' attributes and still look great. A flat chest and short hair do not stop them looking great, see Kiera above. I am just trying to point out that the opposite case in a man, eg feminine traits, are not generally considered attractive to women. Smelly, have you got a view on this?
     
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    She mings...I thought it was Mario Van Peebles at a glance! yuck...
     
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    Michelle Rodriguez looks lush in Blue Crush
     
  12. Mr.D

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    Dustin Hoffman in Tootsie.
     
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    you'll be making a move on Mrs Doubtfire next! ;-)
     
  14. smelly

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    You're asking an ape?? :D

    Seriously it depends on what you call feminine attributes for a man I suppose. Its not necessarily man boobs :rolleyes: Someone women like men with long hair..long eyelashes...I know someone with very kissable lips :blush: Some like a bum they can grab... I suppose its the whole package plus personal taste. As you said you can't describe Kiera Knightley as manlike despite having what you could say were typically boyish features. Similarly a man could have long eyelashes but still look like a bloke!

    Totally agree though that whilst women can get away with wearing mens clothes it doesn't work the other way!!! Beckham in a sarong is about as far as you could go ;)
     
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    I have long eyelashes - they are a PITA as they get my glasses dirty :mad:
     
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    No, that is too far. Even men in skirts (AKA kilts) are suspect, royalty or not
     
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    Yeah well men aren't supposed to find them attractive.

    You've obviously never worn one . Kilts are the proverbial fanny magnet. Every single time I've worn a kilt I've pulled no problem ..had to beat them off with a stick to be honest especially outside Scotland. ( unfortunately my kilt conspired in getting me married)

    I reckon I could put my least succesful pal in a kilt and he'd go back home with some decent crumpet.

    Kilts are the cure for adult male virginism pure and simple.

    Don't worry about chicken legs either ...the thick socks and cut of highland dress create the illusion of rugby player calves. And go commando (unless its a family do). Someone always gives your kilt a lift fully expecting you to be decently covered underneath.

    The look on their faces as they glimpse the vorpal sword : a mix of fear and attraction , is a delight to behold.

    Why do you think they have a sporran? Its to store all the condoms you'll need.
     
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    Same here. :(
    I wouldn't describe myself as effeminate though, I'm into consumer electronics and hifi. :)
     
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    Ah yes, those extremely masculine and rugged past-times.... :rolleyes:
     
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    Agree 100%. Had to wear one to 3 weddings so far (scottish family), and wearing one when I'm giving my sister away at her wedding in August. She's a dancer. There will be lots of fit female dancers there. Shame the wife's coming too. :rotfl:

    Ouch. :( She saw me type that.
     
  21. Dr Diversity

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    Sorry guys, still not convinced about the kilt :)
     
  22. mrtbag

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    Here's mine.
     

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  23. Dr Diversity

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    Nope :(
     
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    I thought the sporran was there so that if you get mugged, at least you enjoy it !! :D
     
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    Is that a sporran, or a merkin?
     
  26. smelly

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    Much as it pains me to admit it - he's right. Just get a load of this :D

    Sorry couldn't resist posting the picture!! Seriously though all my mates love guys in kilts - I think you should reconsider your view Mr D ;)
     

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    That would be great for you Smelly if it wasn't from a mens mag... :rotfl: . (was gonna do a :smashin:, but the connotations are a bit suspect)
     
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    And how do you know that?? Regular subscriber?? :rolleyes:

    From my point of view as I'm only looking I don't really care where the pictures from :D
     

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