I apologise in advance for being a numptie! Can someone please give me an idiots guide to playing online with a selected friend. I know it will be simple when explained but I'm a bit of a noob and a silver surfer. I set up a party, invite a friend successfuly yet I can't invite the friend to join a game as the option is not available. Do I load the game then start a party and invite friend to join game. Confused.com Thanks for any help. On lunch break so will look in later to see if anyone can help. Ta.