Went to have my wife's 10 week pregnancy scan on Monday...looking forward to seeing the first pictures etc. very excited! But then it all went wrong... what had happened was that the baby had stopped growing four weeks ago but the sac has continued to grow as normal, I've never felt any emotion like that one, like a coke can being crushed or something...it's hard to describe how my wife reacted. To go from one feeling to the complete opposite in a heartbeat. The last couple of days have been ok, we are both getting used to it really. I am surprised at how she has bounced back (I think she will be a bit up and down for a while) although she was a bit upset that the hospital couldn't fit her in until today for an "evacuation" as they so nicely put it. I can't imagine how it must feel to carry it around for three days knowing what you know. sorry guys, I don't know what the point of this thread is supposed to be. We'll get over it, just one of those things.