TBH, you need to get out and demo. If you ask Yamaha, Denon, Pioneer, Onkyo, Marantz owners, they will simply reply with what they own themselves. Alternatives to the Denon suggested above would be the Denon 2908/3808, Pioneer LX60/LX70, Marantz SR4002 and Yamaha RX-V1800 would interest me. Check the owners forums and do a search on the likes of the less popular Marantz which look really good for the money.