After the impression that Mallrats left me I took everyones advice and got hold of Criterion Chasing Amy. What a great film !!! Besides being a wonderful story and greatly written I was able ( for one of the 1st times ever in a film ) able to relate with Holden and his feelings when the history behind Alyssa raises its head. The ending ( of which I hear some people were let down by ) I felt was the only real ending the film could have and fitted with the story completly. I think that this is the first film which may help me be a better person. Thanks for the recommendation !!