neilo said:Can you win her over if she tells you there is no hope ?
Or do you just resign yourself to single life ?
Yes I still love herMr Cat said:would you really want to..?? move on, find someone else...
Games Guru said:Shag her best mate. See how she reacts to that!
Games Guru said:Shag her best mate. See how she reacts to that!
neilo said:Can you win her over if she tells you there is no hope ?
Or do you just resign yourself to single life ?
Cheers mateRazor said:You can win anyone over if you really want to. The thing you have to ask yourself is she the right one for you. If the answer is yes then fight for her. Do what ever it takes.
If there is someone else involved then I would wave good bye. Once someone has betrayed your trust it is near impossible to trust them again or love them in quiet the same way.
Sorry to hear you are having problems mate. I hope it is resolved one way or the other. Good luck.
neilo said:Yes I still love her
Im 39 this year feel too old to start again
I hear ya , but I asked her if she wanted us to stop speaking , she sais noGames Guru said:I understand totally where Razor is coming from, but imagine if you were her and you really wanted to end the relationship, the last thing you would want is for your ex to keep on harassing you IMHO. Personally, it would put me off even more. But then I imagine you know her better than most people, and it is up to you to make that judgement call at the end of the day mate.
Cheers Overkilloverkill said:Give it up Neilo. From (bitter) experience, if she's saying it's over, then it is. Women, once they've made their mind up on a relationship, have already moved on in their heads. Theres still a chance if you noticed she's unhappy about things before the crunch, but if it's come out of the blue..........
Sorry to hear it's that serious, and hope I'm wrong, but it's well nigh impossible to talk em' round once the female mind is set.
As a last desperate move, have you tried to get her to see a MGC? If you're married that is? That sometimes buys you some time to lay on the wine and roses and follow that by talking it through.
neilo said:I hear ya , but I asked her if she wanted us to stop speaking , she sais no
overkill said:Give it up Neilo. From (bitter) experience, if she's saying it's over, then it is. Women, once they've made their mind up on a relationship, have already moved on in their heads.
Cheers Colincolinwheeler said:Sorry overkill but your name comes to the forefront in this one.
Neilo, don't do it because of this. I understand where overkill is comming from but really don't listen because if a relationship is really important to you, you should fight for it just from an honesty with yourself point of view. If we just gave up on things that were really important to us???
Go for it, just keep in mind that your long term happyness is the most important thing.
Mr Cat said:tho I could ask her sister who still txt's me from time to time...
neilo said:Cheers Colin
I have tried telling her to fight , its a stupid argument