Bbls has given me financial stability, out goings slashed, car sold, all cc paid. Money in the bank.
Without that, I would've filed for insolvency during the first lockdown period. Turnover is two thirds what it was. But I'm not fussed I've spent months and months with my daughters..... Plus I'm not tied into contracted hrs or obligations to a company.
Girlfriend has kept working, so no change other than loss of bonus, and yearly pay rise, workload tripled. She does plan to leave her current role and look for something with a better work life balance for our relationship/family in the near future.
We're looking to buy, we can't borrow what we could pre pandemic, but we should have a tiny mortgage with money leftover to have a good life.
You have to cut your cloth, yes I miss the car but it's not important in the short term.