went to Icmeler last May 08 with wife and daughter, we stayed 5 star all inclusive at the Miramar and we loved every minute of it. we got a cracking last minute deal for about £830 all in. i had never heard of the place but it came highly recommended by a friend.
have you sorted out your transfers from the airport to the resort? it is about a 2 hr trip and this was probably the worst bit of the holiday tbh. the drivers are mad, it's like wacky races with these guys. there were a few times on the way to the hotel from the airport i said a prayer. they are driving along a cliff edge undertaking and overtaking without a care in the world and with no safety barrier at the cliff edge our lives were literally in his hands
try and book your airport transfer on the net, it'll work out cheaper if you shop around, i think we paid something like £21 one way for the 3 of us.
we did get asked a few times by restaurant workers to eat at their place but i just tell them we have eaten at the hotel and they are ok. Icmeler is a nice little seaside town with some nice local shops the majority of which sell fake bags and clothing. be prepared to haggle and get the price down. you will also find that the quality on items like bags varies from shops, i.e. may be slightly inferior in quality. they have all the branded designer bags (obviously fakes). the other half went a bit wild buying them but she hasn't used one to this day (waste of money)
you also have Marmaris that is about 20 mins away from Icmeler. Marmaris is worth a visit. it is more tourist orientated with a lot of shops and restaurants, worth a visit and the local bus service is cheap and regular.
you'll also find that the locals accept sterling and this is their preferred method of payment so don't worry too much about converting money.
i'd also recommend one of the day boat trips. and don't forget to check out the weekly market to get some more bargains. you'll pobably be able to haggle more there, there is one held in Icmeler and one in marmaris, can't remember the days but if you ask anyone they let you know.
overall we had a great time and i'm sure you'll love it as well..
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