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  1. Cocksure

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    Right i dont know if this question would break the rules, so i will try and put it in such a way that hopefully it doesn't :)

    Basically their is a girl that i quite like but alas i know her ex-boyfriend and the idea of "going" where he has been turns my stomach. Any advice?
     
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    Did he ever go round the back?
     
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    I think this thread will be legendary. (Pulls up a chair.)
     
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    Don't bother. If the thought of where her ex has been puts you off your wasting your time as it will always bother you. Prob a good swerve for her as well if that's the only issue you have.
     
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    No idea :laugh:

    Just using the front door is enough for now :confused:
     
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    Username is ironic
     
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    To me that's a childish question.
    Her past is her business and nothing to do with you.
    You cant like her that much if that's what is 'holding you back'.
    She has had a lucky escape by you NOT asking her out *.




    * However if you know the other lad has chlamydia then I take it all back.
     
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    Happened to me once. Started 'dating' a friends ex. He ribbed me about it of course. 'What's it like '@@@@ing used goods?'

    'Not so bad, once you get past the used bit'.
     
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    Know the other lad for 20 odd years, not as a mate but still know him. Alcoholic and druggy is how I would best discribe him.

    Also because I have known him for so long I kind of view it as going where a family member has been to if that makes sense.

    No moves have been made towards her, so no harm has been done in that sense
     
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    Sounds like more a jealousy issue, jealously is a dangerous thing. If your a jealous man in general stay away. If your not, go for it.
     
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    It is, I agree childish, are you actually Gareth in The Office?


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    None of this makes sense....you are not so cocksure now about whether you are comfortable sleeping with a girl who was being banged by an acquaintance, who also happens to be a drug user that you consider family.

    Aim higher.
     
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    Ok it's childish and stupid, I wouldn't disagree.

    Doesn't change what I feel though.

    @rousetafarian close the thread I have my answer, keep well away in short for both are benefit
     
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    He's worked on and off for my dad for those 20 years with myself having to work as a peace maker between the two of them on a fairly regularly bases.

    So whilst I know he isn't family, having been involved with him for so long kind of makes him is. When he is off the drugs and booze, he's not a nice man but he is a fair one (hard to describe)

    When he is then you keep your distance. I don't dislike him I just don't like him either (probably how how you feel about me). There's a lot of history between us. So I'm not talking about someone I've met at the pub etc.

    Anyway question answered
     
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    I don’t particularly like or dislike anyone here for the record.
     
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    If you fancy her go for it. Otherwise you will always be wondering. Life’s too short.
     
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    Depends how tidy she is tbf.
     
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    Any hole is a goal, go for it, in this day and age you are not going to find anything that hasn't been banged like a barn door in a hurricane
     
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    Do you have daughters?
     
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    Just like stirring porridge......
     
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    Personally I would say, for me it would come down to a few issues.

    How close physically is he to her and he to you?
    Are your paths every likely to cross at any social events?
    Is he still "just a friend" or is it, more like totally blanked for life?

    Just my own personal viewpoint, and I know we can't always have exactly what we wish, but I'd vastly prefer it myself is any "x" was not potentially still Around.
     
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    And we are done.....
     
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