Pre-cisely . The way to change social attitudes is to just act normal, get on with your life and be yourself. Once people begin to realise that gay people are no different to any other kind of people- just with a different preference- then they will be accepted and society can get on with thinking about more important issues. If the OP sets out to show he's different, then he'll be inviting people to treat him differently. That's called self-fulfilling prophecy.