I've managed to get this working after a lot of research!! Eventually I nailed it down to two devices it was out of a device named the smartblaster or a device named OmniLINK Infrared Signal Extender System. Both are infra red senders and have nothing to do with picture sending.
I purchased the OmniLINK Infrared Signal Extender System (£25 from B&Q, but I went with my dad on pensioners day and got the 10% discount!!)
The omnilink consists of the omillink itself which acts as the sender, infrared sensors, power supply and a digi eye link.
I'm using a Samsung virgin media box. For the picture I am using a coaxial (RF2OUT) into a booster which then has a coaxial to the TV(2nd).
SET-UP
Plug the omnilink block into the virgin box RF2OUT. plug the power supply into this block(power is needed to send the signal down the coaxial cable), plug the infra red sensors into the block, stick one of the sensors on the front of the cable box these are tiny.
The coaxial connects to the block which then goes to the booster in my loft and then from my booster I have a coaxial to the 2nd TV, this is where the digi eye is used. The coaxial coming from the booster connects to the digi eye and the digi eye then connects to the TV.
The booster I am using is the SLx Gold 4-Way Aerial Booster With Digital Bypass please note the booster must have the digital bypass function if you are to use the digi eye via a coaxial.
This works fine no problems it is like I am sitting in front of the box all menus are visible.
I hope this makes sense and I haven't confused the hell of of you guys!!.