Hi Phil,
Thank You for apologising.

It is 100% appreciated.
I have no problem with people disagreeing with me.
I don't expect anyone to like everything I write.
I don't expect anyone to like anything I write.
That's fine. Honest.
I know I'm no paragon of virtue, and I would never claim to be one, either. I have faults and failings, and I accept that. I also know I've been harsh with some people on the Forums, too, and have been reprimanded for it - sometimes justified, other times not, but such is life.
The problem comes when
anything I write, is just used to fling mud in my general direction. That's when I have a problem. In recent weeks, it seems some members are happy to keep flinging mud in my direction just for me opening my mouth, and it's getting both extremely frustrating, very annoying, and rather hurtful too.
Hurtful, to the point that yes, I have considered leaving the Forums. It's getting too clique-y, and the same sets of people are attacking
anything, everything I write, for the sole reason that they can do so, and because they think it's cool, clever and manly. I've also considered leaving, because it has felt that if you don't follow the status quo, then you are automatically wrong. Well, that's wrong. Just because someone does go along with what everyone else is saying, doesn't make their opinion less valid.
If I had come into this thread, and posted "
I thought the Olympic Opening Ceremony was crap", I'd be understandably castigated. Why? Because I've not given anyone any reason as to why I reached that conclusion. Thus, my opinion is dumb, as there's no reason for it.
The fact that I DID post why I felt the way I did, did not warrant the castigation from you and others. That was unnecessary and uncalled for. It came across as if "
Your opinion is wrong, and the only valid opinion is if you liked or loved the Ceremony" or "
You opinion is wrong, because it's you who is saying what you are saying."
Anyway, I
accept your apology, and I hope that the people who have been doing the mud-flinging will now cease doing so.
Don't mud-sling, just because you think it's fun.
Don't mud-sling, just because you can.
Don't "thank" those who do mud-sling, as it makes you just as guilty of the one's flinging it in the first place. It's tantamount to ganging-up on someone, and bullying them because they are different to you (irrespective of what that difference might actually be).
Pooch