Hi,
we've all been there mate don't worry
without sounding like I am taking the mick your best bet if you have no idea is to open the manual and look at the set up diagrams.
If you've read my thread you will know I love Monster stuff

so here is a link to their cable guides which is pretty idiot proof (well I understood it) have a look about this site as their is loadsa info to be had
http://www.monstercable.com/hookup_learning/
Good luck its great when you get it right!