I'm a fan of the Shark connectors myself. The connectors mylo used (link in his thread) look to be exactly the same as the Shark ones, but at a cheaper price.
I've made interconnects using Van Damme Instrument, Starquad and Twin Interconnect before, and been happy with all of the results. As i've said before, Instrument is a bit weedy to work with, and in the future, i'll probably stick with Starquad.
Last one I made was for the sub, and I put a bit of heatshrink around the cable to make it a nice snug fit into the connector. After soldering everything, I put heatshrink over the whole connector and about 1inch of cable to really beef-up the strain relief, and looks quite cool too
I've never compared SQ with a ready-made one as I won't buy one, but i'm quite confident that a DIY job is money well spent.
If it were me, i'd go for mylo's connectors with 6 lengths of Starquad in a nice cool colour to contrast with my other ICs.
BTW, got my cheapo soldering iron from Maplin for about £4, along with silver solder.
Regards