Just so we are all on common ground, are these the speakers you have?
DISCONTINUED ACOUSTIC ENERGY AEGIS EVO 3B HOME CINEMA SPEAKER PACKAGE - Superfi UK
These are not exceptionally expensive speakers, about a £1000 for the set. But the specs look very impressive.
The front speakers should have no problem standing alone as stereo speakers. Even the rear speaker have impressive specs and should make a great pair of stereo speakers.
But it is not clear what you have or what you are trying to do. You say you have a Rotel and B&W 601s, is that the system your are replacing, or is this a separate system?
Do you actually have the Acoustic Energy EVO 3B, or were you planning to buy them? If you have them, what are you driving them with.
Are you looking for a stereo amp or an AV amp?
The better we understand what you have, what you are doing, what you want to do, and what is happening that you don't like, the better we can understand your problem and help.
If this is a completely different system from the Rotel system you describe, then let's keep our focus on this system.
What do you have now? How are you using it, and what don't you like?
As far as amp in general, we are alway trying to balance quantity with quality. Rotel and similar amps will give you more quality, but less quantity for the same price. There is a Pioneer amp in this price range that is only about 50 watts. We could assume that is because the quality of components is extremely high.
Exactly where that balance is, is something that only you can decide.
As to the sound, if you want to hear well at low volumes, you need very big very efficient speakers, or you need to be very close to the speakers.
Though in all fairness, the AE EVO 3B don't fall far from that description. They are relatively large and have a relatively high sensitivity.
Again, give us more details presented in an orderly fashion, and we can probably do a better job of helping.
Steve/bluewizard