dont forget to work out what the dessert is going to be as well, no point serving up the wrong after dinner drink even if it tastes good the rest of the time
if the dessert is very sweet, suggest using a dessert wine to match it, it wont be quite as sweet tho so wont be as much a shock to the palate once the brandy hits.....
btw, if you want something a little upmarket to impress during the meal, duck breast at this time of year is very nice

(served with sauted sweet potato slices, battered baby corn, stir fried sugar snap & chunky cut mixed peppers..........sweet chili sauce on the corn and a light drizzle of maple syrup on the stir fry before you take it out the pan)
serve with a good quality Sancerre for the men and a mild Pouilly Faume (scuse the spelling, might have it right, under the affluence atm..lol) for the ladies....
if you have the ability, a good mango thingy for the duck (dammnit, forgot the word...its basically a type of sauce...lol...)