How do you tell somebody that you don't want to go out with them, but you want to go out with their best friend??!

Is this even possible? Because their best friend might not want to go out with me in case they hurt their friends feelings or something.

[Leej]

Don't tell the girlfriend until you've asked her friend out . If she says no then you've lost nothing. Then again if she says no, then tells your girlfriend of your advances then

[Timbo21]

Originally Posted by jason5_k

How do you tell somebody that you don't want to go out with them, but you want to go out with their best friend??!

Is this even possible? Because their best friend might not want to go out with me in case they hurt their friends feelings or something.

Whether you can end up going out with her best friend should not be a condition of whether you stay with your girlfriend or not. Just because your 17 doesn't mean you don't need to have any considerations for others. First, you should finish with your girlfriend if you are having these feelings, since you obviously don't want to continue with her. Then you can test the water with this other girl by asking her out. At 17 you can get away with this sort of thing much easier than when you get older, but have a heart & treat your girlfriend decently.

Good luck ,

T.

[GBDG1]

A bird in t'bed is worth 3 in t'bush, see how long you can string them both along for, then when they find out suggest a threesome, if that doesn't work go gay.

[pringtef]

Deirdre writes :

At your age it is morally repugnant to make any decision until you have slept with them both.

After that compile a 'score' chart, comparing the two's attributes, 'what will my mates think' factor (always important), personal hygiene, and dirtyness in the sack level. Mark each one accordingly. After this, total up the marks, and this will assist you with your decision.

Remember, that personality is just a small part of relationships, and often through society its importance is over emphasised. Start looking for other attributes that form the basis of ruddy good fun, mammary excellence, and nice bum are good examples.

My leaflet, "chokin for my chicks best friend and don't know how to have both", contains more details.