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Old 11-10-2009, 6:28 AM   #1
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Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

Met him once in London, all round good chap.

BBC NEWS | UK | Boyzone's Stephen Gately is dead

He will be missed.

RIP

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Old 11-10-2009, 7:02 AM   #2
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Re: Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

so young...shocking
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Old 11-10-2009, 7:06 AM   #3
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Re: Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

yeah was finishing off my shift in the HQ and saw it on sky news
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Old 11-10-2009, 7:36 AM   #4
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Re: Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

so young ..... RIP
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Old 11-10-2009, 8:38 AM   #5
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Re: Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

A great shame, he seemed like a genuinely nice bloke. RIP Stephen.
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Old 11-10-2009, 9:59 AM   #6
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Re: Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

Does anyone know what happened?
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Old 11-10-2009, 12:40 PM   #7
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Re: Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

night out in spain went to bed never woke up.

Shocking 33 is nothing.
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Old 11-10-2009, 12:45 PM   #8
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Re: Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

Just heard this very sad news. A genuinely good bloke.

RIP.
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Old 11-10-2009, 7:41 PM   #9
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Re: Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

Just found out, real shame at a young age.

RIP Stephen.
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Old 11-10-2009, 8:33 PM   #10
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Re: Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

Awful news - agree with everyone's sentiments. Seemed like such a nice guy.
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Old 12-10-2009, 8:50 AM   #11
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Re: Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

"8 hour booze binge killed star"

Sad news indeed but if the claimed is true, I am less sympathetic.
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Old 12-10-2009, 8:57 AM   #12
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Re: Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

What's the source for that headline?
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Old 12-10-2009, 8:58 AM   #13
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What's the source for that headline?
The Sun
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Re: Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

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"8 hour booze binge killed star"

Sad news indeed but if the claimed is true, I am less sympathetic.
Idiotic comment, have you never been out and got ****** in your lifetime?? If so... would you of expected your friends and family to sympathise with your plight?
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Re: Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

Who hasn't been on an 8hr bender while on holiday in Spain though??

Anyone who has been on an 18-30 holiday would know that 8 hours is only a warm-up to serious binge drinking.

I'm not condoning it, just pointing out that it's not unusual.
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Old 12-10-2009, 9:07 AM   #16
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Idiotic comment, have you never been out and got ****** in your lifetime?? If so... would you of expected your friends and family to sympathise with your plight?
He did say less sympathetic to be fair. I was thinking along the same lines as you though, could have happened to me in my younger years. Sleeping on your side probably saves a lot of people from a similar fate.
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Old 12-10-2009, 9:11 AM   #17
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Re: Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

He was on holiday and these things happen. Nobody knows the specifics.

Fair enough if it was an alcohol related death to an alcoholic who had drank them self to death despite warnings but by all accounts it's an unfortunate accident.

I think the fact it was an "8 hour binge" is irrelevant, anything over the recommended limit per day is classed as a binge these days and nobody knows what he's drank to really pass judgement.
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Old 12-10-2009, 9:15 AM   #18
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Re: Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

We all know how reliable as a source the Sun is but there is nothing unusual at all for a guy of his age, he was holidaying in Spain and living it up. Like dazza said, could have happened to anyone... When I was younger on holidays I can 'just about remember ' 9 hour evening sessions for 14 days running consuming copious amounts of alcohol, you simply don't consider the possibility of dying as a result.

Sounds like a freak accident, I gather the autopsy is planned for tomorrow so nobody will know any more until that time.

Sky News reports that Police are searching for a Bulgarian guy who apparantly returned to Gately's apartment after the drinking session.
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Old 12-10-2009, 9:26 AM   #19
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Idiotic comment, have you never been out and got ****** in your lifetime?? If so... would you of expected your friends and family to sympathise with your plight?
Thanks, I excel at idiocy.

And as I said, it's sad, rare and unfortunate but if self inflicted, I am less sympathetic.
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Old 12-10-2009, 9:37 AM   #20
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Thanks, I excel at idiocy.

And as I said, it's sad, rare and unfortunate but if self inflicted, I am less sympathetic.
Ohh come on. He went out and got ******. It's an accident he never went out to get ****** and kill himself (As far as we know) If he did that would be self inflicted.

A self inflicted alcohol death would be someone needing a liver transplant going out and drinking a litre of whisky.
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Who hasn't been on an 8hr bender while on holiday in Spain though??
And then Brits are surprised they have a bad reputation as vacationers....
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Anyone who has been on an 18-30 holiday would know that 8 hours is only a warm-up to serious binge drinking.
Ain't that the truth, bunch of crooks that 18-30 lot, I remember our lads holiday to Malia years back. They started plying you with ouzo first thing in the morning so they can fleece you out of money to go on their rubbish excursions.
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And then Brits are surprised they have a bad reputation as vacationers....
Oi, don't you be knocking one of our best exports
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Old 12-10-2009, 10:02 AM   #24
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Who hasn't been on an 8hr bender while on holiday in Spain though??
I think we should leave his sexuality out of this discussion.
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Old 12-10-2009, 10:03 AM   #25
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Re: Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

The think I find ironic is that you have the likes of Ozzy Osbourne who went on massive benders that last decades including crazy amounts of booze and drugs and manage to make it out alive. Stephen Gately does what I am sure most of us have done many times in our lives and gets unlucky.

Real shame!!
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I think we should leave his sexuality out of this discussion.
Considering the circumstamces, I think thats in poor taste.
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Re: Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

Just listening to Irish radio at the moment, and a representative of the family has called into a radio station to clear up some stories.

Regarding the 8 hr drinking session, this guy is saying that he was on the phone to his family on Sat night after 12, in good form but sober, and told them he was going into Palma (about an hour away). He was then back in the apartment before 6am.

Also, he is saying that the police aren't looking for anyone else. He does say that a family friend was in the apartment, but that this was nothing more than a tragic death.
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Re: Boyzone star - Stephen Gately RIP

So what is an '8 hour session'? Six until 2 in the morning?

I've no idea if he was falling-over drunk, but it's easy to see how you could go out for a night for that long and not be drunk.

Out at 6 - take it easy and have a couple of beers until 8. Walk to the restaurant and get seated for 8:30. Share a bottle of wine over a meal, which you don't finish until 10:30. That's four and a half hours up and you've only had 2 pints and half a bottle of wine.

Of course, he might have been necking back 3 pints an hour with nothing to eat, but just because he went out from 6 until 2 doesn't mean too much in itself.

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Considering the circumstamces, I think thats in poor taste.
Sorry, I didnt mean to cause any offense to anybody. his untimely death is of course a real shame and he will be missed by many. I was never a fan of his music but I have read that he was a truly nice person and my sympathies go out to his friends and family.
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Sorry, I didnt mean to cause any offense to anybody. his untimely death is of course a real shame and he will be missed by many. I was never a fan of his music but I have read that he was a truly nice person and my sympathies go out to his friends and family.
No worries. I'm all for a bit of black humour usually
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