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Old 13-08-2009, 6:00 PM   #1
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Is there a Gay community on here?

Just wondering if there is a gay community on here
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Old 13-08-2009, 6:04 PM   #2
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

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Just wondering if there is a gay community on here
Well I'm one - does that make us a community! lol
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Old 13-08-2009, 6:07 PM   #4
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

lol aye ...just wondering really....

Im Female, and Gay....just wondered how many of us (male and female) there were on here..lol
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Old 13-08-2009, 6:09 PM   #5
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

i heard its called GAYV forums.
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Old 13-08-2009, 6:29 PM   #6
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

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Well who knew ?

I prefer the ladies, but I was the best man at my oldest friends gay wedding, and I'm way too metrosexual, I'll take an honoury membership if that helps to get the numbers up.
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Old 13-08-2009, 6:44 PM   #7
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

There's a fair few, but I'll leave it up to them whether or not introduce themselves... Most people here are well balanced enough not to make a big deal of it, and any who aren't feel the moderators boot soon enough

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Old 13-08-2009, 6:52 PM   #8
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

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What the heck is that new avatar KF ?

I actually can't see what it is at 1920x1280 res, it's to small.

Bring back Hank
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Old 13-08-2009, 6:54 PM   #9
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

Meee.... (sorry )
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Old 13-08-2009, 7:00 PM   #10
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

heh theres a few of us then
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Old 13-08-2009, 7:04 PM   #11
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

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heh theres a few of us then
Well the forum has about 300,000 members, what's the average % of gays in the population, about 5% or so isn't it ?

So by rights I suspect we have at least 15,000 kicking around give or take.

So it's looking like my honoury membership is screwed.
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Old 13-08-2009, 7:05 PM   #12
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Well the forum has about 300,000 members, what's the average % of gays in the population, about 5% or so isn't it ?

So by rights I suspect we have at least 15,000 kicking around give or take.

So it's looking like my honoury membership is screwed.
lol aye well not everyone would step forward heh
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Old 13-08-2009, 7:10 PM   #13
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

Does it really matter if your gay, straight, bi-sexual, into animals e.t.c?????

Why bother even mentioning it?

This is AVForums - a forum for audiophiles, home cinema buffs and enthusiasts.

It's not a lifestyle forum, openly announcing what your sexual preference on here is like me going on a gay forum and announcing "I've got a 50 incher!!"
While it might get a few risque comments - it's irrelevant on a gay forum.

Before i get flamed, im not a homophobe - i've got gay friends both men and women.

Why do gays feel that they've got to have a "community", we should just all live our lives together.

Do you get someone of asian, or carribean origin asking if there's a black community on here???

No you don't - it has no place here really in MY opinion.

Rant over.
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Old 13-08-2009, 7:15 PM   #14
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

here here

couldn't give a monkeys what you are so long as your not hurting me or mine...but this is a forum for av junkies and there are plenty enough social networking sites to ask other people what their sexuality is..and that is in fact what you are doing
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Old 13-08-2009, 7:19 PM   #15
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

what so the posts about what to have for lunch and how many ppl have been on ur page is about AV?....being gay is a big part of my life...if ur not interested then why even bother coming in the thread?
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Old 13-08-2009, 7:21 PM   #16
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

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what so the posts about what to have for lunch and how many ppl have been on ur page is about AV?....being gay is a big part of my life...if ur not interested then why even bother coming in the thread?
I was about to post about that. This being the general chat section of the forum, means that it being non-AV related doesn't apply.
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Old 13-08-2009, 7:27 PM   #17
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

IMHO its definitely a lifestyle website. Sure it started as AV forums but you can discuss pretty much everything here when you factor in the Non-AV sub-forums.

EDIT: Just seen the two posts before mine....agreed !
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?



We've had a fair few threads with new female members asking, purely out of interest, how many other women members there are. I don't view this thread any differently...

In fact it is probably one heck of a lot safer than the "are there any other believers in God on this forum?" threads

If you're not interested in a thread there is no need to read it much less come and post your reasons why in it ...

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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

lol...i'll be sure to mention that to my children who read this forum...and to your advertisers..each and every one of them
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

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Does it really matter if your gay, straight, bi-sexual, into animals e.t.c?????

Why bother even mentioning it?

This is AVForums - a forum for audiophiles, home cinema buffs and enthusiasts.

It's not a lifestyle forum, openly announcing what your sexual preference on here is like me going on a gay forum and announcing "I've got a 50 incher!!"
While it might get a few risque comments - it's irrelevant on a gay forum.

Before i get flamed, im not a homophobe - i've got gay friends both men and women.

Why do gays feel that they've got to have a "community", we should just all live our lives together.

Do you get someone of asian, or carribean origin asking if there's a black community on here???

No you don't - it has no place here really in MY opinion.

Rant over.
I am with you on this one!! I always have arguments with one of my best friends (who is gay) about gay rights etc, about equality, well if somebody wants equality why exclude yourself by having your own ''SPECIAL'' community and going on about it etc etc

One particular example is the recent number of employers who are proud to be amongst the most Gay friendly Employers in the country and advertising this fact on there websites. As a Straight guy this kind kind of makes me feel unwelcome when applying for a job. Imagine if it said ''White Friendly'' or anything else friendly it would never be allowed.

Why can't we all just be people?

Anyway I better shut up as I don't want to get into a big debate about this.

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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

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...but this is a forum for av junkies and there are plenty enough social networking sites to ask other people what their sexuality is..and that is in fact what you are doing
not really much different to asking "Is anyone here a Mason or know of a Mason", which you were happy enough to answer
- and to be fair that was a much more direct and personal question of members, than what the OP has asked here

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lol...i'll be sure to mention that to my children who read this forum...and to your advertisers..each and every one of them
Well OP, there's certainly a Daily Mail Brigade community here

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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

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lol aye ...just wondering really....

Im Female, and Gay....just wondered how many of us (male and female) there were on here..lol
First question - are you fit?

Second question - if the answer to question 1 is yes, can you install a webcam in your room when you have ladies round?

Giggidy.
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Should I grab the popcorn?
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

***pulls up a chair and leans in to take some of Singh's popcorn***

I think some people are somehow seeing something sexual in this thread as apposed to a member seeking other members with a common interest.
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

righto...krish..are you a homosexual? and if so what would you like to talk about....what part of being a homosexual do you find to be most gratifying...to some people being a homosexual is a very important part of their lives....so lets just concentrate on the homosexual angle and have a nice chat about it.....after you
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what so the posts about what to have for lunch and how many ppl have been on ur page is about AV?....being gay is a big part of my life...if ur not interested then why even bother coming in the thread?
I'm interested in how much lesbianism takes up your life!
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

I wonder how forums would be different if you couldn't post something along the lines of

"I'm not [insert prejudice] infact some of my closest friends are [insert group] but..."
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I wonder how forums would be different if you couldn't post something along the lines of

"I'm not [insert prejudice] infact some of my closest friends are [insert group] but..."
Love this A bit like the other forum classic "No disrespect but your an idiot"
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

This thread was only ever going to go one way

Now just waiting for the feminist terrorists to turn up closely followed by all the others that want Justice and acceptance in society!

I think being an able bodied young white hetrosexual male has me at quuite a dissadvantage.

Anybody else outhere just like me want join my club and share my pain
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Re: Is there a Gay community on here?

It took a special kind of person to do it this fast though. While on the subject:

Spades for digging holes deeper are available for a small additional fee on the front page

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