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Old 27-07-2009, 7:03 PM   #1
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First loves. Remember them?

I met up with my first love again the other night. We are both now divorced and had not clapped eyes on each other in 22yrs. Things went well and I have an inkling that this could go somewhere. Does anyone else think this would be a good idea or is nostalgia too dangerous ?
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Old 27-07-2009, 7:10 PM   #2
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Re: First loves. Remember them?

Go for it with a calm head. No point spending the rest of your life wondering

'What if?'

If it doesnt work out at least you tried and can have no regrets.
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Old 27-07-2009, 7:28 PM   #3
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Go for it with a calm head. No point spending the rest of your life wondering

'What if?'

If it doesnt work out at least you tried and can have no regrets.
What he said!
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Re: First loves. Remember them?

How can you ever forget them. Good luck!
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Old 27-07-2009, 7:44 PM   #5
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Re: First loves. Remember them?

All together now....!!!

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Old 27-07-2009, 8:48 PM   #6
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Re: First loves. Remember them?

The recent death of a certain musician prompted my ex from 10+ years to get in touch via a well known social networking website. I thought we'd never speak again, but I guess some nostalgia is irrepressible

Go for it essexman, the old cliché in that 'life is too short' has never applied more.
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Old 27-07-2009, 11:40 PM   #7
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Re: First loves. Remember them?

my first love? a young Austrian girl of 16 i fell madly in love with and so her as an angeli in my mind. She was so perfect I couldnt consummate our relationship - well you dont **** angels do you!Anyway I travelled to Vienna to be with her but unfortunately her very rich parents took a dim view of a long haired bedraggled hippie with little money and put me on a train back home the next morning.
Often wonder what happened to her and still got her pic
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Old 27-07-2009, 11:51 PM   #8
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my first love? a young Austrian girl of 16 i fell madly in love with and so her as an angeli in my mind. She was so perfect I couldnt consummate our relationship - well you dont **** angels do you!Anyway I travelled to Vienna to be with her but unfortunately her very rich parents took a dim view of a long haired bedraggled hippie with little money and put me on a train back home the next morning.
Often wonder what happened to her and still got her pic
Cant blame 'em really.....I wouldnt want my daughter marrying someone in denim.
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Old 28-07-2009, 5:22 AM   #9
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Re: First loves. Remember them?

I was looking on friends reunited the other day, so I thought I'd see if my first love was on there.

Well I found her (Damn no photo's though! ) but under the bit where it says occupation, it said escort!
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Old 28-07-2009, 6:52 AM   #10
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Re: First loves. Remember them?

My first love went on to marry a drunk who managed to kill her in a car crash. All very sad
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Old 28-07-2009, 7:02 AM   #11
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I'm still with mine
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Old 28-07-2009, 7:21 AM   #12
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I'm still with mine
Locking her up in the basement doesn't count.
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Old 28-07-2009, 8:23 AM   #13
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Re: First loves. Remember them?

Well if after 22 years there is still a spark . . why not

Im only a young nipper at 24 but to me it seems like your both in a place where at the very least it will make you happy, in a teenage hormone ridden way. Which im sure after both your divorces will be a welcome breath of fresh air.
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Old 28-07-2009, 8:32 AM   #14
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I still see my first love most weekends, ah where would I be without you Special Brew
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Old 28-07-2009, 8:32 AM   #15
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Re: First loves. Remember them?

Yes i remember mine, hopefully she's not around any more!



She treated me bad!
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Old 28-07-2009, 8:38 AM   #16
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My first love went on to marry a drunk who managed to kill her in a car crash. All very sad
Jeez, that's terrible and sorry to hear it.

Similar sort of thing happened to a beautiful girl when I was at college. The lad hardly had a scratch, she died instantly I believe

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under the bit where it says occupation, it said escort!
Yikes! Got some cash saved up?
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Old 28-07-2009, 8:42 AM   #17
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I remember her...had massive tits, her nick name at school was silicone..nice girl though
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Old 28-07-2009, 8:50 AM   #18
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Re: First loves. Remember them?

Met mine again a couple of years ago.

She was so big she puts her belt on with a boomerang, had a seriously foul mouth and was etremely bitter about life, particularly her ex husband. I left before she thought I was a choccie eclair and tried to eat me or think I was her ex and stab me. Seriously scary.

I just couldnt believe that she was the same gorgeous little creature who ran onto the school running track in her little satin effect running shorts and tight white top all those years ago. She hypnotised any male classmate who saw her in that outfit.
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Old 28-07-2009, 8:59 AM   #19
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I first fell for mine when I was 13 - it was a brief affair with little romance. We reminded ourselves of this affair once every couple of years, with increasing intensity, until when I was about 25 I realised that she wasn't the girl I wanted, it was the one at work i'd been casually 'dating' for some months.

The morning after our last 'encounter', I laid my cards on the table with the girl at work - 11 years on, and we have 2 children.

Never saw the first love again. Although I did get a xmas card 2 years later with a simple message in - It's about time we had our biannual reunion. It was tempting.

I did google her some time ago, and she's become very successful in her field - I'd love to get in contact just to catch up, but I get the feeling it would be awkward and just a tiny bit risky.
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I did google her some time ago, and she's become very successful in her field - I'd love to get in contact just to catch up, but I get the feeling it would be awkward and just a tiny bit risky.
Dont do it. heat of the moment could ruin what you have.
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She was so big she puts her belt on with a boomerang. I left before she thought I was a choccie eclair and tried to eat me or think I was her ex and stab me.
Sorry mate but that is funny!
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How could I forget my first love?

I came home one morning and she'd gone , took all my Bob Marley records and my satellite dish.

Ended up with No Woman, No Sky.
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Old 28-07-2009, 9:48 AM   #23
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Re: First loves. Remember them?

Are we talking first love or first girl we had a crush on or first girl we kissed?

The first girl I kissed was blooming hot, I saw her once in skegness many years later but not since. Cannot find her on facebook because her surname was pretty weird..or she's not on.
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But thanks anyway
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I'm not daft

But thanks anyway

i speak from experience never again. I mean that. Its not worth it for fumble.
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Old 28-07-2009, 10:21 AM   #26
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Well i have stirred up such an outpouring of memories for all of you ! To keep you up to date we have been chatting online , she thanked me for dinner and then told me my butt was still nice. I would say that was a good sign. Hers btw is still pretty damn good too....
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I was looking on friends reunited the other day, so I thought I'd see if my first love was on there.

Well I found her (Damn no photo's though! ) but under the bit where it says occupation, it said escort!
She might have mixed up occupation with car
.... but that's even worse!
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Old 28-07-2009, 5:32 PM   #28
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Yeah sure, instrumental in me being the nuerotic, closed off mess I am now.

Still think of her fondly though... Crazy eh?
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Old 28-07-2009, 6:19 PM   #29
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I still remember her vividly. Her name was Lucy. I was 17 and she was 15.
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Old 28-07-2009, 6:42 PM   #30
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Re: First loves. Remember them?

Yup, the first girl I was "properly" in love with was absolutely amazing when we first met, right sodding psycho she turned out to be.

Poured battery acid on my mums car bonnet
Called the police on me at work for allegedly beating her up (I didn't by the way)
Stabbed me with a penknife during a heated discussion
Cheated on me a couple of times
Stole about 3K from me

All this over the space of a year, ah, the memories I found out through a mutual friend about about a year ago she had developed quite a severe dependency on heroin, karma? Who knows, I still kind of hope she's OK though, am I nuts?
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