1) Dead easy to use, with big buttons on the remote, and ot too many of them!
>I'd get one of the sony universal remotes with big buttons as I doubt any player will come with something suitable.
http://www.electronics-online.co.uk/...rols_Sony.html
2) The remote should be able to operate the volume on his Sony TV
>tick to universal remote
3) A flourescent display which shows whether there's a disc loaded, playing etc
>most players do but I'd stick to a big brand Pioneer, Panasonic, Sony as they tend to have slick simple menus.
My nan 92 is quite happy with a LG player, nice big graphics onscreen and its clear what its doing. We've got a Panasonic and Pioneer as well. The panny is very nice but the onscreen writing it quite small. The Pioneer is better but the LG was the best. Go to a big store like comet and try them but thats my advice. Good luck.