"The general point is; I can really advice anyone to after a while of point and shoot with crossed fingers (Lotto style) to take the time...You may be ready for it as well...The d-SLR isn't as daunting as it first seem and I am really happy I made the step..."
Goes without saying that's only if they have any interest in doing so
I went from a point and shoot to dslr in about 15 months. I did have hold of a Nikon D100 for a bout six of those 15 months, which "witters" ended up buying on this forum. I never really used it that much, and when i did i never really knew what i was doing, never new anything about aperture/ lenses ect. Still never knew anything after i sold it (wasn't mine)
I had no plans of buying one when i bought a more manual digi cam the canon S1. But i liked the more manual control it had over my ixus and i started to learn more about aperture and shutter speeds and what was needed where ect. Also made me realise it's limitations like the IS was very handy for low light but was no good for moving subjects, and iso 400 was hardly great and noisy above 200.
So, i started to think that i wanted more, and when jessops agreed to give me a credit note for the S1 (if i bought a 20D) after canon repaired it because of a fault. I put it towards the 20D and i'm really glad i did. Pretty much know what lenses suit me best after months of research, know what’s needed where ect, had no idea before.
Lenses, well what can i say. Just been fantastic doing the research and learning all about them.
I've had my camera for about 7 months and pretty much know it inside out. What i really need to do now is get to grips with RAW, i've never even used it yet!!! yep that's bad.. a couple of 1g cards on the way is going to change that

Then i think lighting will be my next venture. A photography course eventually, just opened me up to a hole new world
[One thing i'd like to say is, this is about people who have bought a dslr and want to share their experiences about their learning process, it's not about digi cams V dslrs, that's pointless , I’m not going to let dejongj’s thread turn in to that so if you’ve no interest in dslrs there’s no need to post]