Thanks for the tip
Philghost, the Olympus cameras, especially the new C-7070 were on my list as they give brilliant results.
I went out today and bought a camera. I finally gave up trying to find the perfect camera. So a small compromise was in order.
I bought the new Pentax Optio 750Z which does everything except the wide end of the zoom which is 37.5mm equivalent, not the 28 that I had hoped for.
It is very small, much smaller than similarly specced cameras such as the Olympus and has the following:
7MP
5X zoom 37.5mm to 187.5mm
close focus (very) it works down to 1cm!!
Twist out & flip view screen
And it even takes SD cards which will save me some money as I already have a 256MB card (I will get another for the holidays though).
£370 from Wildings in Manchester, Jessops would only go down to £399.99. I know that there are a few places online that are cheaper, but I would rather buy an item like this from a shop that I can go back to if there are problems.
Thanks again for the tips.