I'd get the SD9. When the SD9 was still £60-£70 dearer than the SD5, I bought the SD9 anyway. I was sold on
(1) the SD9's slightly smaller size,
(2) the marginally higher recording bitrate (17Mbps versus 15Mbps),
and
(3) the fact that, because the SD9 has a normal, external battery mount (whereas the SD5 has an internal battery compartment) the SD9 can take larger capacity batteries and also does away with the cooling fan of the SD5 (which was too noisy for my finnicky tastes).
Plus (4) Dixons had the SD9 in black, and I liked it.
The SD9 also has a progressive shooting mode, but I never use it. To my mind, it's a gimmick. Canon seems to be the only manufacturer doing progressive well in consumer camcorders.
Memory cards? Class 4 will do, you don't need Class 6. 8GB cards seem to offer the best value for money: you can usually buy two 8GB cards for slightly less than one 16GB card. Transcend is a brand that appears to have plenty of backing around here (I own several myself though haven't had them for more than a couple of months, so can't vouch for their longevity). Typically you can get the equivalent Transcend card for around half the price of a Sandisk card. You'll want to work out some kind of archival / backup strategy regardless of the brand you opt for. Mymemory.co.uk have a reasonably good deal on 4GB and 8GB Kingston SDHC cards at the moment:
http://www.mymemory.co.uk/SDHC/Kings...ards---Class-6
Andrew.