OK I got news ! Good news !!
I have just received my replacement camcorder . (Amazon's returns policy cannot be faulted - I received the replacement before they had even collected my returning camcorder...!)
With quite a lot of trepidation, I plugged it (unpowered and switched off) into my DVD/HDD recorder - worked fine
Then I plugged the firewire cable into my PC (6-pin), and plugged the 4-pin plug into the camcorder ( with it again unpowered and switched off).
Then I crossed my fingers, took a long gulp of beer and switched the camcorder on...
You can imagine my relief when I heard the BING BONG noise of Windows XP recognising the camcorder !
So I can conclude that I had previously fried the IC circuitry on both my camcorders by incorrectly plugging them into my PC. I cant remember the sequence I used (cos I was unaware of the risk at that time), but I do remember having the camcorder powered up by its AC adapter. BECAUSE THE SONY LITERATURE SAID THAT BATTERY POWER ALONE MIGHT NOT BE SUFFICIENT
I agree with those of you that note that this is a hidden problem with camcorders and that there should be some sort of crusade to inform the public about this..
But thanks very much to you guys for your help. Jaymac and the newark video services advice article were particularly helpful.
I am just about to print off the correct connection sequence to prevent this ever happening again...