Sony Vegas Studio+ DVD look
here
Adobe Premiere Elements2 look
here
There are other personal favourites but these 2 are known to be stable, well featured and easy to use after the initial " getting to know you " phase.
I was at the recent Video Forum in Earls court and they had Seminars on the Sony line (including the full Vegas:Very impressive :as I was using it using basic NLE software knowledge). You can actually buy in the UK;just google it
There is no perfect software however and you will hear good/ bad things about all of them. Done carefully , making a narrow shortlist and downloading trial versions is a good way of assessing them yourself.Better still is see if a friend has a preinstalled one and have a play on thier system
I use Pinnacle Studio 10+ ( among others) but reckon Im one of the lucky few it doesnt misbehaved with.
When it works it has a very smooth learning curve and youll be happily editing in no time. Unfortunately I cant endorse it due to significant stability problems with a significant no of users.
Avid are ironing out its bugs and it may well be a more mature product soon. Ulead Video Studio 9 is better product from the stability point of view. A lot of people like it but I ( personally) find its User interface in need of a overhaul and used it only briefly bfore uninstalling it!
Finally a word about hardware. The recommended specs of any of the software should be taken with a pinch of salt. They tend to work better with higher specs
HTH
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