In need of my first ever receiver and speaker system

. I have read this forum from time to time but its now time for me to buy a system for 2009.
As of yesterday I thought I had my system set in my mind as the
Onkyo 606 and
Kef 3005SE, however reading a few more posts today made me doubt my decision

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Im now thinking of the
Pioneer VSX-1018, but the speakers i dont know?

I have been put off by eggs as some people say the sound is not as great for the price you can get with possibly larger speakers.
I have an upscaling DVD player (HDMI output), PS3, old 50" Pioneer Plasma PDP-506XDE, Sky HD
I would say my usage is 60% TV (HD and Divx etc via PS3), 20% PS3, 20% Music.
I need my speakers to look the part and sound the part, I would like gloss black finish on receiver and speakers. They need to look stylish even if that means sound is compromised a little bit

. Any recommendations please.
Now sure if I also want a 5.1, my floor is tiled and cant run wires under them and its a through lounge. Would just two front and sub be better. Would I lose a lot by now having the surround speakers?

Thanks in advance, I will be looking out for any suggestions.