Thanks Indus, that was the kind of thing I was thinking of building myself, only I was planing on using the 12 volt trigger from my 2808 to switch the input over to the AV amp when needed.
However, last night I tried using the external 7.1 inputs on my 2808 (just the front left and right connections) and found that the sound for CDs was much better than using the 2808's 'CD' input.

The 'CD' input still goes through some ADA processing even when set to 'Pure Direct', but it seems like the external input just goes through whatever stage is needed to pass through the master volume control. There is no control over delays, EQ, etc, using this input, which isn't needed anyway, but that implies a 'purer' signal path and I'm sure it sounded better this way. It then didn't seem to matter if I used my NAD C350 for pre and power duties or the 2808 as a preamp directly into the C350's power amp inputs. As this makes the setup much simpler I'll live with this a while as the result sounds good for CDs and movies were fine anyway.
Might be worth a try if you aren't using the external 5.1/7.1 inputs on your AV amp. I've not had anyone confirm the signal path using these inputs, so I could end up with egg on my face, but I'm sure it sounded better anyway.