To be honest, i have no idea of the answers to your problems ...... but i wont let that stop me.
Playing the ipod through your stereo, i think the easiest (and by far the cheapest) is getting an FM Transmitter (ww.ipodworld.co.uk has loads). Though you wont be able to use your steering wheel controls other than changing the volume !!
I dont think you can get the ipod lead through the stereo that you have (
www.connects.com is your best bet)
As for the video, try this :
http://shop.ipodworld.co.uk/iPodWorl...d_Adaptors.htm, theres a couple there.
Its not a classy integrated unit, but the word "integrated" usually means pricey.
P.S, nice car that S-Max. Want one.
__________________